AFFIRMATION: I am creating healthier habits. I am creating healthier experiences. I am creating healthier relationships. I am a creator.

kushandwizdom:

- Lalah Delia

girlwearingredeyeshadow:

Man: wyd 🍆😋
Me: ..realizing things

youngblackandvegan:

any relationship that could be “ruined” by having a conversation about feelings, standards, or expectations wasn’t really firm enough anyway, so there isn’t much to ruin

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We’re all a little depressed and not talking about it.

I basically like someone who is in a relationship, while being pursued by a nice guy with emotional baggage, a creep who subtlety says “you first” to see my ++ ass do twists up the stairs, and a bearded guy who may or may not have a handsome face underneath it all and may or may not be an alcoholic. Revelation: love actually is blind except not really bc my crush is attractive and I’m all for it. Currently waiting for him to disappoint me in more ways so that I can get over it.

metalgf:

Sometimes you need to take a break from distracting yourself and just. Confront what you feel. I mean everything’s exhausting, like repressing your feelings takes a lot of energy and expressing them takes a lot of energy so I think you gotta do both. Take turns. I don’t think you have to commit to doing one or the other. It’s not about being strong or being weak I think it’s just about being lighter and more fluid.